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~ Written by Viki Rife

A few weeks ago, when I wrote a blog about keeping wonder in Christmas, I had no idea that a new kind of wonder awaited our family this season. The morning of December 22, my father slipped away from us into his Father’s waiting arms.

Christmas will never be the same for us. Yes, we grieve, and most likely there will be some grieving each year at this time. There is a big hole in our hearts. But overriding the pain is a confidence that the baby in a manger came to defeat death.

The hole is not forever. Our dear daddy—pastor, missionary, school administrator, chaplain, husband, father, grandfather, and all-around lover of God—was a work of grace. He is now experiencing the wonder of Heaven. And even in the pain, we are experiencing the wonder of peace that passes understanding.

Our family is entering a new season of life as the new year begins. You might be, too. May we all spend this new year focusing on the wonder of God’s amazing grace at work within us. Have a wonder-full year!

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~ Written by Viki Rife

It’s time to speak up about fathers. Our society has become increasing hostile to the role of fathers in the family. Movies and sitcoms portray fathers as more of a hindrance than a help to their families. The concept of an absentee or clueless father seems to be the norm today.

As strong women who live by God’s values, we can have a part in helping our men reclaim their place in the family. This is not accomplished by reminding them of their failures.

Instead, we need to treat them with respect and consideration, and model for our children and grandchildren the importance we attach to their role. We need to affirm their strengths and their wise choices. Our support of dads can free our men to receive with joy the responsibility God has placed on them as fathers. 

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~ Written by Viki Rife

While touring a Victorian mansion on vacation one time, we were told a story I cannot seem to forget.

A wealthy family had a daughter and son, ages 7 and 5, who died during an epidemic. The mother could not adjust to the loss. She had two dolls made, with the same sizes and features as her children. For the rest of her life, the woman’s servants were expected to keep up the normal family routines. They “woke” the children up each morning, dressed them, and sat them at the breakfast table. After breakfast they were taken outside if the weather was nice. In the evenings, they stood by the window, waiting for their father to come home.

My heart breaks for this mother nursing her dead dreams. But I can’t help but think of the times I do the same thing. We are supposed to be dead to sin, but instead we try to keep our self-centered perspectives alive. We dress them up and sit them at the table. Sometimes we look at them and realize that something is missing, that it’s all empty, but we cannot bear to give them up.

A worse tragedy than death is refusal to accept when death occurs. Christ-followers are called to let go of what is empty and embrace what is alive. Praise God, we can do that in His power!

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